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Megan Hittner's avatar

I turned 40 last year and instead of 1 big party where I only got a few minutes with each person I loved, I scheduled some 1:1 some with my favorite people. A friend from the West Coast flew in for a few days. A hiking & lunch date with another. My mom got me a plane ticket to go see her ( leaving this AM!) without the kids, just mom/daughter time. A few things that got planned for this year too, so its extended the celebration! these dates are so hard once everyone has kids or moves around a bit, so having this "excuse" to get together with my favorites was just was I needed.

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Alicia Lund's avatar

Oh I love this so much! My friends are all spread around too in various cities so this is a great idea!! Have the best time with your mom this weekend!!

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Natalie Thomure's avatar

Hi Alicia, I’m going on safari in East Africa this June and would love to see a safari edit! Leggings or hiking pants? Technical or linen jacket? What kind of hat? So many questions.

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Alicia Lund's avatar

Oh so fun! I've never been but I have a few friends who have gone on safaris and said they relied on layers because it's cooler in the mornings and evenings / but warm during the day. I think yes a lighter weight rain / cargo or linen jacket and neutral / khaki colors. And I think they dressed up somewhat (maxi / comfy dresses for evening) I'll have to ask them again for more specifics!!

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Angela Fink's avatar

<3

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raeshelle leslie's avatar

oh alicia, your words and your images keep getting better and better - loved everything about this ♥️ happy valentines!

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Alicia Lund's avatar

oh so sweet of you ~ so happy you enjoyed! happy Valentine's Day to you!

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Marian B's avatar

Celebrated my 40th at French Laundry. Other 40th celebrations for my friends included Zion national park and an epic hotel in Todos Santos Mexico.

I treat myself with bubble baths, making a cappuccino at home and sipping while reading, not setting an alarm once a week, splurging on shoes or a handbag, and trying to get 8+ hours of sleep a night!

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Alicia Lund's avatar

Oh love this!! I still haven't done French Laundry but it feels very 40th bucket list. What a treat. ;)

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Courtney's avatar

Love to hear more ideas about celebrating turning 40! I'm celebrating in the fall and am thinking to possibly do a Big Sur road trip, hiking and stay at a more luxurious spot along the coast as a treat! Any recommendations? Also love your insider posts about SF. Love visiting there and checking out more hidden gems!

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Alicia Lund's avatar

I agree, I love hearing what everyone is doing. My husband and I stayed at Post Ranch a few years back and we still talk about it and dream of going back. It was just so peaceful / quiet... amazing views and felt really special.

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